This anniversary he really gets points for a great gift. He is giving me additional drumming lessons. I had been taking lessons before we met and one of his first acts of chivalry when we were dating was to carry my new set of drums up to my third floor apartment.
I lost my instructor a while back and I am famous for having a short attention span, so I let other things/hobbies take up my free time . It's been ages since I banged on my drums and I have been talking about getting back in to that groove again for a few weeks so my anniversary gift was perfect!
My drum set used to live in the bedroom of our ONE bedroom apartment before moving in to the house we live in now. It was crammed in with more furniture than you would think a room could hold! I would bang on my drums often because they were right in front of my nose. Now they sit in our office and for a long time were buried behind boxes and boxes of my husband's gaming supplies and miniatures. (He has tons of them!)
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I appreciate that my husband listens to my desires and tries to encourage my hobbies. Being the smart ass that he is when I thanked him for the gift he quickly joked that after having carried those drums up and down a third floor apartment he might as well encourage me to use them.
I told him that he probably misses having a drum beat accompany his shedding of clothes in the bedroom and that I credit the drums for convincing him he should marry me.